Why should forgiveness be done?
Has anyone betrayed my love and left? Has anyone borrowed my money and ran away?
In my case, there was a senior in my late 30s who borrowed money and left. The senior I trusted, but the senior who left without saying anything was cruel. I regretted it, and I resented it. For a while, my mind was the only one that had a hard time. As time passed and I let go of my hatred for my senior, I felt at ease. And after a few years, my senior came back. But I never mentioned the money I lent to my senior. I lost money, but I didn't lose my senior. I forgave my senior. For my sake.
There is a person who is close to me now, but lives a hard life while hating each other due to misunderstanding and distrust. They are hurting each other's bodies and minds and tormenting themselves. I hope they forgive each other now and live comfortably for the rest of their lives.
Forgive him. Forgive him for me. Forgive me, not for him. Is there anyone who makes me angry? Has anyone betrayed me and left? Has anyone criticized me, done something mean to me that you don't even want to think about and ran away? I must forgive him, even if there is a man in my heart who seems to be angry and impossible to forgive. I must forgive him not for him but for me, for me thoroughly.
It won't be easy to forgive someone I hate. I may feel wronged, angry, but I must forgive him now, not for him, but for me. Not because I understand his situation, I don't feel sorry for him, but I feel hard in my heart, and I feel like I'm going to die, so I have to forgive him. I must live, and I must forgive him.
I think my reason should be forgiven for my own sake, but my feelings will not listen to my reason. So if I want to forgive, I have to make a firm determination to forgive. To hate him to the end is to make it hard for me to the end. So I have to forgive him. That way, my mind is relaxed and I live.
If it is too hard for me to forgive, cry aloud to let me forget him, to let go of my hate, to curse loudly in the absence of people, and to pray aloud. Not for him but for me. Then at some point, tears will pour out and I will feel relieved. Even if I die, I must forgive someone who I think I can't forgive for me.
Think about it. Is it still worth hating him enough to torment my whole body? Is it worth hating that person enough to bother my whole heart? If I live with hatred and hatred in my heart, I am the only one who suffers and my life suffers. Our lives are not long enough. I hope you live with only your loved ones in your heart.
That way, you can live a happy life with a comfortable mind.
Mr. Y.N. Kim
Chairman
Meta Global Research