It is wise for you to live with a feeling of losing money.
In order to maintain a smooth relationship, it is better to live with a feeling of losing a little to the other person. This is because people remember in detail what they did to others over time, but what they received from others is not well remembered over time. The other person thinks you're a relatively fair person if you live in a feeling of losing money.
I found out that I can think of myself as a relatively generous person if I live with the feeling of losing a lot of money during my work and social life for the past 30 years.
In the past 60 years, I have seen many cases of partnership with friends, and I have seen many cases of serious disputes with close relatives or seniors and juniors.
Why does this happen? This is also because each other feels that they are losing more money than their friends and acquaintances. If you feel like you're losing money like this, what would the other person think? Others will also feel that they are losing money. Eventually, they break up because they feel they are losing money to each other.
If you want to do business with a friend or someone close to you, you have to do business thinking that you are losing a lot of money. That way, you can gain trust and maintain your partnership for a long time. It's because it's not easy to give the other person the perception that you're fair with the feeling that you're losing a little. It's because you have to distribute profits to the other person with the feeling that you're losing a lot because the other person thinks you're a relatively fair person and trusts you.
If you don't understand these feelings, you shouldn't do business together. Because over time, there will be misunderstandings about the distribution of profits, mutual feelings will be hurt, and disputes will easily arise. If you want to do business together even if you have psychological difficulties, you have to do business with the idea that you lose a lot and you make a lot of concessions.
There is a saying that the other person is my mirror. If you want to maintain a smooth relationship, you should never blame the other person. Because if you blame the other person, the other person also blame you. Also, you shouldn't doubt your opponent. It's because the moment you doubt the other person, the other person also. In order to maintain a good relationship, you should see the other person's strengths as much as possible, praise, and encourage them. It's because the other person sees your strengths, praises, and encourages you. This is also my belief that I have kept thoroughly throughout my 30-year career.
If you want something from the other person, you have to do it first. If you want to be recognized by the other person, you have to recognize the other person first, and if you want to be supported by the other person, you have to support the other person first.
It's not a loss to live with the feeling of losing a little while in society. This is because you can gain the other person's heart and trust and maintain a good relationship with the other person. When you treat the other person with a feeling of losing a little, you should know that the other person is also maintaining a relationship with you with a feeling of losing a little. This is how you live a comfortable life while maintaining a smooth relationship.
I hope the wisdom I have realized for 60 years will help you.
Mr. Y.N. Kim
Chairman
Meta Global Research