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Don't be bothered by mistakes, and don't be hurt by criticism.
When I was a child, I saw my father agonize over a business proposal. He sold his last piece of land and started his business. My father's business ended in failure, and he suffered for a long time. It blew away all our property, and our house began to have a foreclosure tag. My father drank alcohol because he couldn't bear the pain, and my family became tired. I felt scared when I was young. When I became an adult, I realized how much money it was. That was unfortunate.
I made a lot of big and small mistakes, too. I have also made a mistake in investing. I made a hasty judgment and acted. As time went by, I found fault. But it's already late. I couldn't sleep, I regretted it. I remembered my father, and I understood his mind a little. I was distressed, but my distress didn't change the situation. I realized that suffering was foolish.
We cannot grow up without mistakes.
Don't suffer too much from the mistakes that have already been made. There is no one in the world who lives perfectly without mistakes. It is normal for a person to learn and grow through mistakes. Be careful not to let mistakes hamper your growth. If we learn from mistakes, mistakes can be a stepping stone for growth.
Whether a mistake is an obstacle or a stepping stone depends on our choice. Life is always full of new challenges and trial and error. We discover our abilities and limitations through trial and error and grow. We should grow by learning from mistakes rather than being obsessed with them.
And don't be easily hurt by someone else's criticism. Don't be too hurt by what they say without knowing much about you. Being criticized by them is also proof that what you're doing now is going well. If you think your direction is right, don't be too conscious of other people's eyes and go on the road silently. As time goes by and the truth comes out, the accusation against you will return as a compliments.
A certain amount of blame in life is something that everyone experiences. You may have been criticized by others at least once. It is important to deal with criticism when you are criticized. If you are not easily hurt by others' criticism and can look at criticism in a positive way, it can also be the foundation necessary for your growth.
We have to deal with other people's accusations.
Blaming by others can be a good opportunity to develop your skills. The criticism of others may compensate for weaknesses or loopholes that I have not thought of. If you don't respond emotionally to other people's accusations, but respond in a cool and positive manner, you can grow personally and achieve greater success.
You need the wisdom to use your mistakes and blame on you as a stepping stone.
Mr. Y.N. Kim
Chairman
Meta Global Research
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